I have turned into that woman that asks for appliances for holidays. Yes, I know, very sad. An oven, stovetop, a new mixer paddle, even a new "Welcome" door mat topped my list this year. Was there anything on the list only for me though? No, not really. This annoyed my husband greatly.
One reason it annoyed him was that it made it very hard to shop for me. He kept on asking, "What do you want for YOU? Not for the house, not for the benefit of others, but something selfish that only you will find enjoyment in." Well, here are some hurdles I'm running in to making this "selfish" list:
1. I am pregnant. Not just a little pregnant, but big round belly, swollen feet pregnant. So there is no point in clothes shopping until the baby is born, and quite a few months after. Even shoes are iffy because of swollen feet and feet becoming bigger during pregnancy.
2. I love home improvements. I love new curtains, rugs, couches. I could spend hours at a furniture store dreaming up my perfect sectional or kitchen table. I have fantasized about new tile in the bathroom, re-finishing our hardwood floors, and have already picked out new countertops for our kitchen, even though we have no plans in replacing them soon. The problem with this one is that these are "house" things, not "me" things. Everyone would use these, and eventually our two children (almost three children) will destroy them. Why buy a really nice couch/rug/kitchen table when there will be permanent marker/grape juice/food spilled and staining our expensive things? I guess practicality steps in here and tells me to hold off on these purchases until the children move out and only visit on holidays.
3. What are my hobbies?? I'm having a hard time pinning them down. They don't include massages or days at the spa, which would be very convenient for Greg. I've always been a little jealous that Greg has had a string of hobbies that he has really enjoyed.
**Side Story: He had a motorcycle, that he could only ride...let me rephrase...a motorcycle that he WOULD ONLY ride (not too fond of riding), he has a Jeep that he is fixing up, he loves to read endlessly, and now his new hobby is RC Helicopters. It started out with a cheap helicopter last Christmas from the mall, and his collection has slowly grown to cover some of our bookshelves with increasingly expensive helicopters. Do I mind? No way. It's something that he enjoys, and he pays for them with money that he has saved or bonuses. He has even included Nolan in this hobby. I'll admit it's pretty darn cute to watch a father and son flying helicopters in the backyard.
Back to my hobbies: I love to bake, but Lord knows if I ate everything I baked, I would weigh 800 lbs. So, most of these baked goods leave my house for other people's kitchens to enjoy. I love to crochet, but it's no fun to just make things for yourself. Hats, blankets, and stuffed animals leave my house to go to other children or friends. I love to read, but lack of time and accidentally falling asleep at 8 pm has put a hindrance on that hobby.
So, Greg was left to the task of being creative and getting me things that I didn't even know I wanted. I think he did a fairly good job.
1. Keyless Remote Entry for my car. I have missed having a clicker for my car for almost a year now. It's something that you don't really think about until you don't have it at your fingertips. It will make getting all the kids into the car much easier and manageable.
2. Hot Booties: Yes, you read that correctly. The kids actually picked this out for me (with some help from Greg). They are house shoes that you warm up in the microwave and they stay hot on your cold feet. I have perpetually cold feet, and Greg would never be caught in them, so this is only for me.
3. Nail polish. This one might sound silly, but I have been on the hunt for nail polish that won't come off after doing dishes one time, or folding laundry. Sadly, $2 nail polish from Target never stayed on more than 30 minutes before chipping and peeling. Greg picked up the quest for me and went to Ulta and got me some pretty cool nail polish with basecoat and topcoat included. It's held up pretty well and I can say that it will last through washing dishes and laundry. (Butter London if you are wondering).
I'm hoping that you got some "YOU" items this holiday season that you don't have to share and wishing you a belated Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
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